02 july 08 - Naked i

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** ((-- wad wo(men) wan... --))
** - he isn't as strong as he seems
** - hw u look matters to him
** - he loves u
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** - she cant shut out her emotions
** - she wans ur empathy
** - she nids to feel loved
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*no 2 ppl r xactly alike. dat's y all r/s r realli an opportunity for u to discover hw unique each person is, n to c hw those differences complement each other. if we were all cut frm e same mold, wouldn't life b rather boring?*

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$$ ((-- singlehood --))
$$ - for some ppl, it's a walk in e park. dey relish e freedom of nt being $$ tied dwn by another person, n having e time n space to persue
$$ personal passions.
$$ - on e flip side of e coin, some singles feel like dey gt e short end of e $$ stick.
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*all of us r designed for r/s wif each others;we nid to gif n receive affection, n to connect wif ppl. dat's y being single can sometimes feel like we're missing out on sth dat e rest of e world is enjoying.*

nxt ::: -SEX-

some ppl thinks abt sex ---

eg. of 3 frenz toking abt their sexually satisfied ---



((-- engaging in sex --))
it allows a couple to xperience great physical intimacy in a v short time. bt aft e thrill wears out, dey may find dem-selves stuck in a rut of feeling v close physically, bt nt much else. while sex may b v pleasurable for a couple, its suggested waiting aft marriage to xperience sex.

god didn't design sex simply to gif us orgasms, he designed sex as an xpression of love n physical intimacy.

sex is nt juz a means to pregnancy, bt is meant to b an intense, joyful, passionate xpression of love. to haf sex wif some1 is a profoundly meaningful thing n if misused e effects can b devasting.

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^^ reasons for waiting :::
^^ - premarital sex can detract ur frm xperiencing a fulfilling love life.
^^ ` dere r more things u can do, like wad other couples did. unds each ^^ other, communication rather den juz having e time for sex. `
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^^ - premarital sex often lacks total, permanent commitment. dis can ^^ cre8 insecurity.
^^ ` some may think, 'if she/he's slept wif mi, who else haf dey slept
^^ wif?' n if dey do marry, one may think, 'if he willing to bre8 a
^^ standard wif mi b4 we married, will he bre8 his commitment wif
^^ another person aft we're married?' `
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^^ - premarital sex can inhibit communication.
^^` each might wonder, 'hw do i compare wif moi lover's other
^^ partners? does she/he tell dem hw i perform in bed?' each may
^^ become less open;communication can ^^ deteriorate n so can e r/s.'
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^^ - premarital sex can lessen ppl's chances to xperience max oneness ^^ n pleasure.
^^ ` waiting for marriage b4 having sex may b 1 of e best decisions u ^^ will eva make. bcuz, when 2 ppl haf sealed their commitment to each ^^ other, when their love doesn't depend on hw amazing dey look or hw ^^ great dey r in bed, den sex isn't juz 'sex' anymore - its making love. ^^ `
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marriage is a profound mystery, e joining of 2 ppl to become 1. it doesn't gurantee or enforce love, bt if taken seriously as an unconditional lifelong commitment of faithfulness n fidelity, it certainly helps to distinguish between love n lust.



no. of marriages in 2006 = 23 706
no. of divorces n annulments in 2006 = 7 061
avg length of marriages dat ended in divorce = 7.8yrs
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*falling in love is relatively easy, bt staying in love isn't. sometimes we think dat e 'happily eva aft' feeling marks e end of our journey. bt K Knight quoted, 'true love nvr lives happily eva aft - true love has no ending.'*
*Jason Jordan quoted, 'true love does nt come by finding e perfect person, bt by learning to c an imperfect person perfectly.'*