Wednesday, June 21, 2017

Mood: Relax

This week is my 3rd week staying with in-laws and hubby, still trying to get use. Still feeling slight uncomfortable and learning to adapt as soon as possible.

So far many random photos and video up on instagram and facebook. More will be up soon, within these few weeks :)

Started our relationship in mid 2013, tried applying for BTO and sale balance BTO but couldn't get it until 2016. Tried and donated so much to HDB throughout that 2 years and finally got our unit selection in 2016, after numerous tries in that 2 years. Marriage plan was already started since we started balloting for house, just months after being together. I would say everything seems to flow in accordingly and we so far won't feel that stress out because it's all spread out nicely. We initially wanted to settle down early if manage to get a unit, or latest 2016. But due to career, we pushed to 2017 and I am glad we did because things really flow in place 1 after another, so nicely.

Graduated in 2015, I moved up towards my goal step by step in place while the hubby graduated and did a career switch. That's when we thought the marriage plan need to postpone another year, and glad we did. On the same year, both jobless and while looking for a job, we signed our Taiwan Pre-Wedding Photoshoot at one of the booth in Suntec City. The following year, we fly all the way there to take our photoshoot, almost right after the Chinese New Year. Braving through the cold weather like 9~11°C, at Taiwan, Taichung. I was spec-less for whole day, for the whole shooting. I was amaze the photos still look so nice and beautiful. Spent good 3 days at Taichung for the gown fitting, photoshoot and photo selection. We enjoyed our yearly Taiwan trip since 2015. Got our album and parcel within 3 months (they are really good and fast). We are super pleased with the final product and happy with the outcome. Especially for myself, once in awhile will look back at the photos and find it so beautifully done. It was really a memorable trip, I would say we really enjoyed ourselves, despite of the additional top up. Overall was great experience ! Definitely recommend overseas photoshoot, especially Taiwan, specifically our bridal shop. [帝芬妮精品婚紗 aka Tiffany Diamond Wedding]



(To be continued ...)

Tuesday, June 06, 2017

Mood: Relax

Finally it's over !
These few months many things happened and all planning are officially completed :)

After a few reminders and pestering him on the proposal, it finally took place at his house, on his birthday. Hehex... After my regular salon appointment, near 3hrs hair treatments done, I rush straight to his house thinking he is still waiting for me for brunch and he must be super hungry. Partial sense that he might propose, and he did, in his room, kneeling half leg down on his injure knee. I receive my super huge bouquet of blue rose and diamond rings. *I just love it*even until now, I keep looking at my ring and smile*looking at the photo and smile*

Within the same weekend, quickly send out the e-invitations to all. Even until the week of wedding, still filling up holes due to a few last minute drop out. 3 weeks before wedding, sent out reminder. 2 weeks before wedding, sent out another reminder. 1 week before wedding, sent out important instruction (include informing of our hashtag: #brangelawedding2017)

All the photos already up on my facebook. So far still quite ok, just that sometimes still feeling abit uncomfortable and weird. Need to quickly adjust and adapt the change of environment and etc >.<


(To be continued ...)

Tuesday, January 31, 2017

Mood: Irritated

Sometimes I wonder why some people just cannot mind their own business. It's like our family issues, why you all want to interfere our way of thinking and acting. I know it's good to follow, but we have our thinking and ways of doing. We try to accommodate but we cannot be doing everything you all want mahx. Sometimes money is the concern and sometimes happy or not is another thing also, many consideration not just blindly follow, you need to see whether it is necessary and also whether everything is within reach.

Some people just cannot keep their mouth shut. They may or may not know it hurts, but 'HELLO' who the hell are you to comment so many things when the family are ok with the arrangement. Seriously leh, damn hate it but cannot say it. Not because I am afraid of you but because I respect you all as an elderly to give comments. But please keep all comments to yourself because we are the one handling the issues, not you. And you just need to freaking keep you mouth shut on the issues. If needed help or what, we don't mind suggestions but not trying to insist and "scold" us continuously like water flow.

Sometimes I pity my parents because on and off they need to handle them. I try to be there to share the "scolding" so that I can feel them and understand my parents situation. Not point saying back because they will counter attack and say even louder until it's like your fault. When we keep insisting, they will be pissed and start being like a principal scolding student. Seriously like WTF !! I am always so pissed with them. I can understand why my brother trying to avoid seeing them, I feel him because I tolerate since young and I am like so immure to all scolding and etc. Reason because I know at times they are just unreasonable people, so no point arguing with them, it's pointless, waste energy only.

Just need to Suck Thumb and let it through, because arguing with unreasonable people are really pointless and waste of time. I got many other things to handle. They like to say then let them say, as long as we insist and continue what we think is right, just go ahead and do it. YOLO, why bother so much.

Feeling so much better throwing everything out. I am glad I still have this blog around :)
Although people might not be viewing anymore, but it's a platform to share my joy and anger and sadness. Making it a point to update as and when possible, but by looking at my previous posts like once a month. LOLs. Good enough =p