Saturday, January 31, 2009

ytd aft make-up lsn, went to watch movie wif dar...
watched "The Wedding Game" ^^
though i found a few of e storylines nt v gd...
bt overall, e movie was nice n swt~
Love It, bt seriously it shdn't stated PG... haha

bt anw, its time for some random pics during dis CNY~

Family Pics ^^


Family Pic + Moi Gan-Ma



Gan-Die + Gan-Ma



Gan-Ma + Moi Cousin(Their Youngest Son)

Mi + Gan-Ma

Ang Baos Frm Moi 2nd Uncle n His Wife




those 2 diff set of dresses, r moi 1st n 2nd day CNY de =p
n dat's when moi tattoo 1st shown to moi relative =p

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

juz counted moi ang bao money for e past 2days de...
merchaim lil lor...
i think dis yr total lesser den last yr...
though last yr gt a few hse din go...
went out instead...
dis yr is bcuz sch den din go, today lor...
cuz gt ppt, ended damn late...
1hr ltr -.-
bloody hell reach hm 8pm...
hungry, tired...
n im all alone at hm T.T
ko lian rite, v long nvr alone le...
as in alone at hm lah, haha...
mayb by dis few days will upload pics to comp...
den can update pics took during e 2days of CNY =D

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Dat's.Y.I.Hate.CNY


von, u're nt e onliz cry baby...
ah jie aso ><


juz nw went to amk hub ntuc, help mommy buy things...
im like juz woke, finish wash up jiu go le...
restart comp once, jiu haf to off le, lols...
at 1st was so reluctant, cuz i scare buy wrong...
ended up, i think i still bought wrong -.-
cuz no more le, so i buy another 1 de, haha...
3 plastic bags, i 1 ppl hw to carry nehx...
aiyo~ bt hai hao, nt as heavy as i tot, haha...


dar hvn reply mi sms, mayb hvn wakey bahx...
or he doing things nehx??
aiyah, memories, memories, memories...
i started to dislike memories, cuz dey make mi cry...
dat's wad i notice ytd...
e more i flash those memories, e more i feel like crying...
bt i noe those memories r precious...
so i wun mind crying for memories...
bt i find it s2pid to crying for those memories...
yah lor, i s2pid lor...
memories aso cry @.@ --> dis is hw moi eyes look ^^


hopefully today can b like last yr cny 2nd day...
can mid dar for movie...
i hope, i wish, yea...

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Happy.New.Year.To.All


may all of u wishes grant...
may all of u gets wad u're aiming/goals...
huat, huat, huat ar~

went to mid dar for awhile, cuz ITS E LAST DAY OF DIS YR!!!
alrite, i realli miss him lots...
erm... though we met, bt where gt enuff leh...
at 1st we say mid, den last min cannot...
haha, den last last min say gng again...

aft dat went to aunty's hse eat steamboat...
like usual yr ^^
den everytime reach hm like 11+pm le...
mommy say when didi grow up a lil, jiu nt gng aunty's hse for reunion le...
so... ... yep...
dis yr cny plain, n visiting lesser hse...
means lesser ang bao...
gt 100bucks jiu happy le...

Saturday, January 24, 2009

cant believe i still cry watching tv...
dat's lame...
lame as in, dat show i din watch de...
den today watch, jiu cry le -.-
okies, im weak... lols
bcuz dat's mood dat's affect...


'Y Cant Time Stop For Dat V Mmt??'
e mmt we haf swt memories...
e mmt we're spending tgt...
e mmt we hear each other voices...
e mmt we're touched...
e mmt we say "I Love You" to each other...
e mmt we say misses...
e mmt we call each other swt names...


y cant time juz stop for dat mmt...
hw i wish... ... ...
I Wish I May, I Wish I Might...
I Had a Dream, I Wish Tonite...

Friday, January 23, 2009

你能分清楚喜欢吗?


喜歡咫尺千里。

當你喜歡一個人時,你想和他在一起,因為他會帶給你快樂;

離開後,你會想念,想著想著就會笑,然後繼續你平靜的生活,並期待著與他再一次重逢。

當你一個人時,你想和他在一起,那是一種牽腸掛肚的捨不得,怕他受委屈,怕他不能好好照顧自己;

離開後,你也會想念,想著想著歎一口氣,'不知他現在過的怎樣?'

然後你繼續你平靜的生活,希望他早日回到你身邊。

喜歡的人在你眼中是天使,無所不能,他總會滿足你的任性的要求。

的人在你眼中是孩子,傻傻的,你不期望他做出什麼'好事'來,只一味縱容他那些讓人哭笑不得的舉動。

你會希望你喜歡的人陪著你,然而你心中想的可能是你的人;

你會希望陪在你的人身邊,看他在你面前睡得如此安逸甜美毫不設防的樣子,你會微笑,會覺得好幸福。

喜歡的人傷害了你,你會生氣,並且一定要讓他哄著騙著逗你笑你才原諒他;

的人傷害了你,你只會獨自傷心,因為你怕對他大吼大叫會嚇著他,你憂傷地微笑著,看著他的眼睛,

一旦發現他的眼裡流露出歉意和悔恨,你會立即心疼地摟他在懷裡,那一刻,你也是幸福的。

你可以同時喜歡很多人,你會希望和很多人在一起,

但也許很多年後你才發現,原來你的就只有那麼一個,

就那麼一個,怎麼都不會變,你以為把他忘記了,其實只是忙的沒空想起而已,

對於你喜歡的人,你關注的是他的優點;

對於你的人,你關注的是他的缺點,並且,那些缺點如果無關原則的話,它們在你眼裡是可愛的,獨一無二的。

喜歡其實只有一紙之隔,任何都從喜歡開始,當有天你突然發現,你喜歡的那個人在你眼中不再完美,

而他的瑕疵正如月中的桂影一般讓你更加依依不捨,你會覺得與他光彩照人的一面相比,

你更願意看他在你面前無助的表情,不知道是不是應該祝賀你,總之,你的感情昇華了
——

仰慕不是,甚至不是喜歡,當你對一個人只有仰慕之情時,你們在一起便失去了和諧。

有人說一個人很累,的確是,因為你想為他承擔,可是喜歡相比最大的魅力就在於,

當你和的人在一起時,你的感覺就像回家了!

Thursday, January 22, 2009

angela is nw happy again =D
cuz she gt bak her thumbdrive...
thanks veon for coming, n wif moi thumbdrive...
angela haf to rmbx nt to forget her thumbdrive again =p


signing off ::: 3.36pm
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angela is fucking buay song bcuz she hvn get bak her thumbdrive frm her fren...
cuz her fren morning lsn din come, nw waiting for him to come n return...
hopefully he comes, or i will visit his hse aft dis lsn...
cuz tml is e submission for
ECSA, n i hvn complete dem...


sick, hurt moi fingers, angry...

signing off ::: 2.20pm
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had been kindda sick for e past 2days...
n aso today...
though was slightly betta den ytd, bt still abit nt feeling well...
as in, juz slightly betta onliz...
shall nt further elaborate in e blog...
so onliz moi mommy, darling n mei noe abt hw sick im...
in sch, i like quite normal...
so nt v obvious =D

thanks darling for fetching up moi bro on behalf...
cuz mommy working, den i schooling till quite late...
den dar help mi fetch didi ^^
sry dat i was kindda late ytd, make u reach hm quite late...
hopefully e bloody cher will release us early...
dis subj de cher always dismiss us 5mins ltr...
nt even early for like 5mins de lor...
bt thanks darling...
dun get too stress-up for studies...
n i realli wish u get wad u wan...

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

head pain...
bak pain...
so sick...
arghhh...

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Woo
Hoo~
had moi ENCM quiz juz nw =]
20 ques, 100marks... totally gone case =D
hehex... did lab practical, 1st time so fast sia, lols...
gonna finish up all e followings ASAP =p
upcoming wed[TML!!] CMSK2 submission de:::

* cover letter
* resume
* company write-up


n aso upcoming fri[which is 2DAYS LTR!!] ECSA submission de:::

* report
* ppt


hmm... dat shd b all for dis wk submission =]]

haiishx... morning wakey, moi bak v pain...
i think shd b last nite din slp well bahx ><
when i bend is kindda nt pain...
bt when i sit up str8 or stretch a lil i will feel e pain...
especially early morning when i woke up...
which means nw im feeling slightly betta =D

Monday, January 19, 2009

juz went in to TP webbie to check some courses...
n i notice moi course major changes sia...
e 2 electives change for e nxt badge coming in...
i find it like more cham den our badge, haha xD
heng, i nt dat badge... or else i sure cmi cmi cmi, lols =p
bt anw glad wif dis sch, dis course...

darling muz jyjy n chiong ur goal... muackz**
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1st grp to present ppt...
ji tao cui lah~
by rite gt confidence, till no confidence...
cham cham cham...
we took like more den 10mins to present lor ><
wan cry liao ><
looks like our grp more cham, like so anyhw...
so shui bian...
heng, we 1st to present, or else more cham... all so gd...
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- waiting for mahmah to send mi e final REPORTS & PPT ^^
all like so shui bian, cham le lah...

Sunday, January 18, 2009

wad im wearing nw, is hw i feel nw...
simple outer...
black inner...
n im crying inner mi, thanks...
crying to show others is asking ppl to approach u...
bt crying w/o others noe-ing is pro...
so i cry wif water over mi when im showering...
i feel much betta...
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Baby had uploaded those pics last nite...
so nw is moi turn ^^
PIC SAYS ALL E WORDS...
waiting for jie to send some other pics ^^
happy 21st advance b'dae to jie...
celeb at sentosa coasta sand resort...






Saturday, January 17, 2009

yay!! finally bought jiejie de prezzie le...
simple n swt~ ^^
hope jiejie will love it =D
n watched red cliff 2 le...
nice nice movie... watched wif moi dearest...

ltr go sentosa =p
hope will b fun bahx...
n jiejie celeb her 21st advance b'dae at coasta sand ^^

Friday, January 16, 2009

ytd had our ECSA quiz
ji tao cui dao dunno hw to say...
20%, i can get 8% jiu happy liao...
2 ques, 1 ques 10marks...
ques 2, say bb~
ques 1 impossible i get full marks, cuz i anyhw =p

mon - BSIT part A & B reports + ppts
wed - CMSK 2 cover letter + resume + company write-up
fri - ECSA PBL 2 submission

im stress ^^
yea, v stress~
bt of cuz still nt as stress =p
choco for bre8fast =D
CHOCO CRAVING~

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

WooHoo~ ECSA PBL 1 PPT DONE!!
more PBL to go... n ECSA PBL 2 coming up...
tml gt quiz ><
nxt wk nidda hand up le =x eek**
mon gt 1 PBL, bt 2 ppt + report... eek**
quiz, plus 2 PBL submission... eek**
STRESS LEH!! i hate PBL...
can i juz say **** e PBL system, haha... simpler =p
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ytd had been a lil more hard working =p
rushing cover letter, resume, bsit...
in sch n at hm...

still nidda edit moi cover letter n resume =p
gng to haf moi ppt in like 30mins time =p
OMFG, im ****ing nervous n scare... WAA!!!
gt so many security threats to say...
our grp, each member 10mins, zomg!!!
compared to other grps, our grp alot sia...
by rite each person say 3 onliz...
our grp each person say like 6-8, ard dere...
haha...

hopefully, i wun b too cui ltr...
nobody wear formal, so do i...
i brought moi whole formal =p [for in case]
nw im realli nervous n scare for ltr ppt le, AHHHHH~
help help~ help~~
(cool dwn) zomg!! (cool dwn)
OMFG!!! (ANGELA CAN U JUZ ****ing well COOL DWN!!) +lols+
hehex, im typing rubbish... plz ignore mi >.p

jiejie dis sat advance 21st b'dae celeb at siloso beach...
hmm... most likely gng out in e morning le, though it will start in e evening...
N im catching darling frm saying vulgurity...
cuz he say he wanna quit saying =p

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Its Pics Time...

K-Box Outing
Last Mth...





Fri b4 gng off to sch
Swimming.Day

Sun at TTSH






zomg!! zoMG!! ZOMGG!!
i forgot to del those pics took/uploaded LAST MTH!!!!
juz del dem... hopefully nobody saw dem =x

Monday, January 12, 2009

Baby, finally gt hm ^^
waited so long...

glad to hear his mommy was betta...
bt still in pain T.T
wad shd i do to help ><
darling seems to b v stress-up...
he haf to look aft his sis, mommy n him self...
he always make mi worry, hw to tc of dem leh...
nw i even worry abt him, his mommy n his sis...


Baby, xinku ni le...
do rest well okies... n cope ur studies well okies...
c u on fri...
nw im even thinking whether to go movie or go ur hse...
cuz if we go movie, onliz left ur sis look aft ur mommy...

sign out ::: 21.25pm
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darling n his sis shd b reaching TTSH soon bahx...
or dey alr reached...
darling's mommy
TODAY 5PM DISCHARGE ^^
waiting for moi dearest to sms mi...
im waiting, waiting, waiting...
so sad, i cant go wif dem ><
i really wanna go wif dem, bt i gt sch...
assign., cant skip T.T


darling gonna b busy...
hmm... perhaps i shd say, he is alr busy...
plus nw nidda look aft/tc of mommy n sis...
darling xinku le...
*pat pat*

Sunday, January 11, 2009

juz reached hm aft hospital visit...
went to visit darling's mommy tgt wif him n his sis...
i volunteer to darling, n he allowed =p
dunno y, gt those feeling i shd go...
wanted to buy fruits like apples, oranges...
bt darling said her mommy like bananas...
so i bought bunch of banana instead =D
reminded him to bring some magazines n newsppr too...
cuz will bored, dat benben din tot of dat =p

bt when we visit her, she cant eat...
since last nite, cuz nidda body check tml...
so haf to w8 till tml aft checking den can eat...
she onliz can drink, cannot eat...
dunno y when i c her de shi, i wanna cry...
nt juz once, is twice...
e tears like auto wan drop dwn...
heng, i ctrl ;p

went up n dwn so many times =p
eat, buy things, toilet...
i had moi dinner at e price of their total price =p
darling did his HW dere...
helped him a lil for e chinese =D
his chinese "damn pro de" =)
haha, anw aft e visit we went to ntuc buy their things...
darling muz rest ur eyes, dun strain too much **MUACKKkzz**
when we gng off she look betta when we 1st visit her in e afternoon...
mon or tues jiu can discharge le...
if tml i dismiss sch, she hvn discharge i might go visit =p
if nt i will send moi regards thru darling ^^

ytd carry moi bro (he slept on moi shoulder)
gt 1 lady stepped on moi foot...
n its ****ing PAIN LOR~
e main thing is, is, is, she din apologise for dat...
today gt 1 uncle accidentally stepped on mi...
he aplogized, though quite soft... bt i heard =p
e main thing of mi mentioning this is, is,is...
y dis 2days so suey, kana stepped on foot ><

Baby's Mommy :::
GET WELL SOON


Baby :::
Rest.&.Work Hard For O's

no matter wad, dear will b wif u ^^

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Darling cheer up...
i wan e U dat I noe...
Darling, though ur words juz nw make mi sad...
i noe u're nt on purpose...
b urself n b truthful to urself...
Live Wif No Regrets...

Baby, I Will B Dere For/Wif U...
N I Wanna B Dere For/Wif U...

signing out ::: 20.56pm
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darling had his sch CIP today =p
he came to amk hub wif his frenz, n he called mi to support...
of cuz, i went dwn... wif moi bro =D
donated for 4 of dem =p
aft dat bring didi go walk walk at amk hub...
walk for like 2hrs, while darling dey all went off aft i donated...
i gt no chance to sit ><
hmm... if today can make it, den can mid darling le...
bt too bad, darling say he tired... so cant mid mi too...
bt at least we c each other for dat few mins??!!...
PIG!!! slept frm juz nw till nw...

darling dun wanna mid mi tml ><
cuz he say wan rest... i say i go mid him, at 1st he was ok(ytd)
bt today he said dun wan, cuz he wanna do HW...
eek, i go find him he aso dun wan...
den jiu suan le lor...
n aso his mommy kindda v sick, so he dun wan mi to go...
haiishx... nw realli is 1wk mid once liao...
even nxt wk aso bahx, i think...
dat blockhead, SHOW MI UR LOVE LEH~
nt juz dat, when i mid u...

n today moi bro gave mi headache...
he is nt at all guai today, Y?? Y?? Y??
came hm wif moi hands n legs jelly...
morning wakey jiu abit muscle ache le...


anw, its time for a lil random pics


took today at amk hub while waiting for moi bro...
saw moi eye bag, its so ZOMG!!

X'Mas*08

Last Time de...

signing out ::: 20.00pm
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新不了情

心若倦了
泪也干了
这份深情
难舍难了
曾经拥有
天荒地老
已不见你
暮暮与朝朝
这一份情
永远难了
愿来生还能
再度拥抱
爱一个人
如何厮守到老
怎样面对一切
我不知道 wo
回忆过去
痛苦的相思忘不了
为何你还来
拨动我心跳
爱你怎么能了
今夜的你应该明了
缘难了
情难了

Friday, January 09, 2009

as usual, blogging again =D

went swimming wif darling, n he was late =p
swam awhile nia, den dar go tan awhile too...
i juz sit dere awhile for myself to dry =p
last mth went www, today went swim pool...
so means, e last time i went pool was long long long liao...
few wks or mths le...

anw i had dessert for lunch ><
aft swim...
kindda pathetic rite?? =x
actually i ate junk food b4 dat, so nt too bad...
n darling had rice, lols
8days no mid, finally today =p
darling say, e nxt time mid will b nxt wk ><
bt i decide to find him dis sun...
or else ... ... ... ... ... ...
haiishx...
juz ****ing miss him lah!!

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...Ur Worries is Moi Worries...
&
Moi Worries Will Always Be Mine =p


had been blogging everyday since e New Yr Post...
yep, busy bt aso will blog...
juz dat had been "Drop Dead", so no pics to post =p

Thursday, January 08, 2009

today is cold...
m i e 1 feeling cold, or izzit moi illusion??
or izzit e weather?? or izzit e buses??
ziped e jacket up to e peak, bt it juz no use... COLD!

had been tired for like 4days, due to nt enuff slp...
or perhaps, nt slping well...
had been walking like zombie, bt working like normal...
kindda lil eyes swollen, eyes pain...
i might blind nxt time... bt nw, i can somehw push it nearer...
im tired, bt nt slping...
im sad, bt nt crying...
im hurt, bt nt bleeding...
bcuz all dat alr freezed for secs, n mayb till nw...

crying shd stop when we goes to bed...
bt mine dunch...
perhaps mine did stop when i went to slp...
bt it cont. rite aft i woke up in e morning...
hmm... nt realli dat... shd b aft receiving e 1st sms...
wad i've sent, wasn't wad i wanna received/ c

abt e Dessert dat day, u said u love mi so much when i Spoon U...
bt i said, u said it to other gurl(s) too rite...
wad i said, wasn't wad u meant...
n wad u meant, wasn't wad i meant...
n dat might b e last time we Scoop For Each Other...

Wednesday, January 07, 2009

plus today jiu 7days no mid darling le ><
misses moi Baby Boi Lots Lots Lots...
waiting for fri, can mid him...
gng swimming for darling again ^^
nw adays, darling sms mi getting lesser ><

miss his voices,
miss his smses,
miss his hugs,
miss his kisses,
miss his C & C,
i juz miss him lots...


nt juz face-to-face bt aso thru technology...
I REALLI NID & WAN U WITH MI!!!

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Love Me... Love Me Not...
Love Me... Love Me Not...
Love Me... Love Me Not...
LOVE ME!!


moi 1000words report GONE CASE LE!!!
save in thumb-drive becomes temp file le...
file corrupted ><
Bo Bian bt to re-do all again...
heng, i gt save those webbie... so nt too bad =p
re-do almost finishing le...
left abit bahx, yah... abt 500+ words more =p

N
I Miss Moi Darling Dearly


though i said nvm, bt actually is mind...
bt wad can i say, juz 3 words...
I LOVE YOU
Time Is EveryThing Btw Us...
N Time Will Prove N Show EveryThing...
Baby, Let Me Feel Ur Heart Alrite...
I Need Wan You With Me... [i've lost word to describe hw much ilu]

Monday, January 05, 2009

moi eyes can hardly open...
eyes bag, black rings, swollen eyes, restless eyes...
waa... eyes v pain leh...
i look at a walking zombie, lols...
v long din lidat le...
heng, tml afternoon lesson...
tonite can slp till bao bao, bao... lols

darling bought his guitar ytd at 80bucks wif a bag include...
bought at aljunied dere, moi fren work dere =p
dat benben no longer benben le, cuz he somehw master liao...
heard him thru fone, gt improvement frm he reach hm dat time...
as in early called mi n ltr on fone...
nice nice...
darling realli made effort to learn sia...
he say he will teach mi =p


im still waiting for ans...
bt nvm, it doesn't matters alr...

Sunday, January 04, 2009

its 4th of e mth again...
our 14 mths.anniv.

hmm... another boring day...
its been a long time since i had such boring weekends [fri-sun]
normally will go out either morning, afternoon, evening...
so, yep, boring 3days...
spend/waste 3 days...

always e best, bt nvr dere...
nvr e best, bt always dere...
when will it becomes always e best N always dere??
nw alr a space, bt equally placed??
when will it becomes more den juz a space, bt placed all over??

jie asked mi hw come so sure/cfm dis is e rite 1...
idk, serioudly, IDK...
juz a kindda feeling inside mi makes mi think so...
jie say when we sign/stamp muz tell her... share e joy...
of cuz, i will if we still contacting...
hmm... i hope, i wish, i wan, it (will/to) happen too...

...Looking forward...
~ days to OH
~ days to CNY
~ a mth to another MTH.ANNIV.
~ a mth to VALENTINE
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突然好想你

最怕空氣突然安靜 最怕朋友突然的關心
最怕回憶突然翻滾絞痛著 不平息
最怕突然聽到你的消息

想念如果會有聲音 不願那是悲傷的哭泣
事到如今 終於讓自己屬於我自己
只剩眼淚還騙不過自己

突然好想你 你會在哪裡
過得快樂或委屈
突然好想你 突然鋒利的回憶
突然模糊的眼睛

我們像一首最美麗的歌曲 變成兩部悲傷的電影
為什麼你帶我走過最難忘的旅行
然後留下最痛的紀念品

我們 那麼甜 那麼美 那麼相信
那麼瘋 那麼熱烈的曾經
為何我們還是要奔向各自的幸福和遺憾中老去

突然好想你 你會在哪裡
過得快樂或委屈
突然好想你 突然鋒利的回憶
突然模糊的眼睛

最怕空氣突然安靜 最怕朋友突然的關心
最怕回憶突然翻滾絞痛著 不平息
最怕突然聽到你的消息

最怕此生已經決心自己過 沒有你
卻又突然聽到你的消息
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不够成熟

想我还是不够成熟
还达不到你的要求
我真的没有想的太多
只是怀念 你走以后
离开难道真的是解脱
难道真的要试过几次了以后才懂
倔强说不痛 假装什么伤都没有
倔强抬起头 决不让眼泪往下流
倔强说不痛 假装什么伤都没有
真的不难过 笑着和你挥——挥手
想我还是不够成熟
还达不到你的要求
我真的没有想的太多
只是怀念 你走以后
离开难道真的是解脱
难道真的要试过今天的以后才懂
倔强说不痛 假装什么伤都没有
倔强抬起头 决不让眼泪往下流
倔强说不痛 假装什么伤都没有
真的不难过 笑着和你挥——挥手
如果有一刻 我们有缘在见
你会不会想起说过的永远
倔强说不痛 假装什么伤都没有
倔强抬起头 决不让眼泪往下流
倔强说不痛 假装什么伤都没有
真的不难过 笑着和你挥——挥手

Saturday, January 03, 2009

sth i found frm moi fren's sis de blog which i find it quite meaningful...
those who r attached think through it...
whether it is true or nt depends on ur belief...
may all who r in a r/s last long eva...


~Be Glad That There's Quarrel in Your Relationship
Is your love relationship smooth? Have the both of you actually quarreled before? If your answer is yes, then you should be happy and be glad that it happened. But if your answer is however a no, then you should be aware of the danger that you are facing. Hmm– did I make things sound a bit too scary? Ha, it is not exactly that serious; don't be scared off by me. Well, I should believe that the both of you are just, still in the sweet honeymoon period of your relationship.
In life, we encountered a lot of up and downs. But it is nevertheless, through all these problems and obstacles that we learn to stand up on our feet times and times again despite the falls we had, that made us what we are today. If life were to be so smooth for us, we wouldn't have grown and learn to truly appreciate it. The same goes for love; if a relationship is ever so sweet and smooth, we wouldn't have learn to really appreciate and cherish the love that is between ourselves and our love. It is through the overcoming of all those quarrels and problems, surviving them through together that we truly know that we deeply cherish the love that is between both, strengthening the relationship more than ever.
Be glad that there is quarrel between both. It actually means that the both have developed another step further in your relationship. It is only when one is closer to you that a quarrel will then actually happen. I don't suppose you will pick up a quarrel with your partner whom you just started dating? You be just trying all out to please him or her instead, wouldn't you?
But do however treat each and every quarrel seriously, especially when the both of you have just started. This is the time for you and your partner to further understand each other more deeply, the time for you to reflect on yourself and honestly think about the relationship. This is the time for the relationship to be tested. A test of your love for one another; whether this relationship is strong enough to withstand any thunderstorm there may be. Well, a survival never fails to further strengthen the relationship, truly cherishing each other ever more.
Avoid unnecessary reasoning at the point of a quarrel. Most of the times it will only make things worse, wait till both have cooled down. At the end of the day, always make an effort to find out what actually went wrong. Is it your fault? Talk to each other nicely, share your unhappiness; let your partner know how you felt. A softer tone is always more calming and pleasing to the ears. Your partner will usually be willing to listen and to share his or her feelings with you too. Sometimes it is out of too much care for one another that unwillingly trigger off a quarrel between both?
Remember, nobody wanted any quarrel. If you are at fault, please don't be a stubborn donkey, you jolly well apologize and seek for your partner's forgiveness. A word of sorry isn't really that hard to say out? There is nothing ashamed to feel of, especially when with your love? Admit your fault, a sincere apology would always be pleasing to the ears; most of the time, harmony it will bring. Nonetheless, if your partner were to apologize to you, you graciously accept it. Why start another quarrel when you could end it? Well, there shouldn't be any overnight grudges between couples.
Give each other a good hug. "I love you dear, I am really so sorry to have hurt you, please forgive me–" Now isn't that such a sweet ending? It is usually through so that you understand each other better, cherishing each other even dearly. Remember, love is a two-way communication. It takes two happy persons, a happy you and your love to complete the equation.

Friday, January 02, 2009

EDITED

Memorable 31hrs


31st dec went to cmpany return uniforms, umbrellas n cards...
aft dat went to masiling mid darling...
he was waiting for frenz de, bt we went off to causeway pnt...
bought our new leg band =p

den head off to darling's hse...
aft dinner n show we head off to marina =p
damn many ppl, push here n dere as usual...
heng, dis time rnd i gt moi darling...
he 'guard' n 'protect' mi all e way up...
thanks sweetest darling, muackz ^^

took many pics...






n aso fireworks~
bt i will upload nxt time, cuz hvn upload to comp =p
sms-ed frenz 'happy new yr'
n aso i saw zk while mi n darling went off aft e fireworks =p
heng, train gt seats =p
darling 30th gt chalet n din slept much...
31st aso din slept much, bt at least betta le...
went hm for some food n drink den jiu ZZzzz le......
he like saw alot of frenz on 31st lor...

bt anw we were suppose to wakey at 6am...
bt bcuz darling was unwilling to wakey, hmm...
shd b he too tired, so ended up slp till 9+
cuz we slept ard 3+
to b xact is he 3+, i 4+ =D
aft dat rush to HQ for morning gongyo to mid papa n didi...
was 15mins late...
den aft gongyo, went behind de mac makan...
hungry hungry hungry...
anw im becoming a pig, thanks to darling...
make mi eat, slp, eat, slp... lols
den head hm to watch tv...
wanted to rest, as in slp or use comp...
bt aft on comp, papa say wan use... so let him use -.-
darling went hm, n mi?? aso go his hse, AGAIN!!!
till e nyonya show finish den he pei mi hm...
n he reached hm ard 12mn, as i noe he will...
bt he say nvm, bt i mind~
i dun wan him slp so late, cuz nxt day gt sch...
he nidda wakey v early to go sch...
bt still, he reached hm aft 12mn...
woke up late for sch... bt nw, he's in sch le ^^
i bet he muz b tired aft 2-3 long days...

darling gave mi a 'morning call' juz nw -.-
his mood wasn't gd due to sch matters, bt nw ok le...
hmm... i think shd b ok le bahx...
anw he still haf to lead till aft o's...
so its long way...
\\\ darling jyjy for o's ///
though we wun b meeting soon, or mayb 1-2wks ltr den can mid...
i noe we will stand as close like we're tgt, rite...
i can nvr eva replace her in ur heart...
bt i believe i will b wif ur soul n heart as time goes by...
may our love last like nvr b4...
n 2 more days to our mths.anniv.


finally,
THANKS DARLING LOTS LOTS LOTS
n a
BIG BIG BIG mMUACKkzzZ


hmm... n dis is almost everything abt mi n darling spent 31hrs tgt...
n dis is our 1st eva rec till nw...
its more den juz 24hrs... juz cant imagine...
all rite, fri pri n sec sch starts sch...
bt mi, fri no sch...
so is wed-sun no sch... so it gonna b mon blues soon~
HAPPY B-LATED NEW YR ALL =p